Patience… that’s the usual thing to do.

Have patience.

But of course that’s not the whole story, and not even an actionable plan.

So how do you employ patience?

Seems to me the key is to just keep doing the right thing until your life isn’t a mess… or until you realize that mess is really the beauty of freedom.

What’s the right thing? Anything that makes you happy. That makes you wake up feeling ready to get out of bed and continue making a dent in the universe.

Gratitude also helps. Being thankful for the mess you do have and the actions you take to not let it mess you up will help you see the mess as less and less of a mess.

Sometimes, that mess is just a noncontrarian life that other people call a mess, but you secretly enjoy.

You know it’s a bad mess when you feel like you’re stuck doing something you hate.

If you hate it, you need to get the fuck outta there.

If you just don’t love it, then deprioritize what you can until you find what you love.

I have no idea who you are or what your life is like.

But I certainly understand how crazy it is to feel like your life is a mess. A good mess, a bad mess, and a eh one…

I know how that feels and what I did to change things. And what I do to keep changing things.

I hope this helps.

And thank you so much for your appreciation and motivation.